Theme:
Teenage Pregnancy in Uganda.
Teenage
pregnancy took the life of my childhood friend and Cousin Sister.
As statistics would
have it, in Uganda, alarming rates of teenage pregnancies are becoming a major
cause for worry to the women rights movement and a possible threat to national
development. Pregnancy rates amongst teenage girls are quoted at 25% (Uganda
Population Secretariat, 2011), making Uganda one of the countries with the
highest rates of teenage pregnancies in Sub-Saharan Africa. At this age, it’s
expected that any child should be acquiring an education which would brighten
their future prospects; unfortunately, for many young women this is not the
case.
The year 2003 will
always be remembered as a year that snatched my only childhood friend and
sister Ruth Ninyesiga out of this world. At a budding and fruitful age of 17 years
she left a gap and a hole full of pain in my heart. Being born in a family of
four with no sister to look up to, Ruth came in handy as a replacement. We grew
up together, shared every little moment and smiles that kept me company even in
the schools we attended together. My mother was glad I had found a reliable
sister in Ruth.
As fate would have it,
Ruth became pregnant as she was about to sit for the senior four (UCE) exams.
It was shocking and held me back for a while with tears in my eyes, Hard to
believe as it were, it was real and in my face! She was asked to leave the
school and my mother decided to get her another school to at least complete.
Sadly Ruth was very disappointed with her-self and decided to have an abortion
which took her life due to heavy bleeding!
My eyes are wet as I write
this story because it’s vivid in my mind. Seeing my friend’s lifeless body gave
me goose bumps. The picture is engraved in my head like a stamp. Ruth left me
due to teenage pregnancy. However, some are lucky to go head and give birth to innocent
children. As it were with Ruth, teenage mothers are often not able to complete
secondary school which makes it difficult for them to find decent jobs to take
care of themselves and their children.
In Uganda, increased
sexual abuse of children (at least 628 children are defiled per month) has
become a major contribution to this evil. However, sometimes teenagers have
consensual sex- (not protected) which can be blamed on the moral decay in the
society and exposure to high level technology.
With Ruth’s experience I
vowed to make her proud by achieving the dream that we had all vowed to get to.
She wanted to be a lawyer and fight for rights of the needy and poor. Despite
the sadness that will never leave my heart, I wear a smile for having managed
to make her proud. I’m now a young lawyer working in an NGO Human Rights
department ensuring that Ruth lives on through me. The story inspired me to be part
of the young youth activists who inspire other young people not to be diverted
and work hard to achieve their dreams they set out to achieve.
Uganda has put in place
various policies to address teenage pregnancies but like many other policies,
these have largely remained on paper and implementation has been very minimal. The
National Adolescent Policy states that pregnant adolescent girls should be
readmitted to school after they have delivered their children but this does not
happen in most cases. Often, schools are not willing to re-admit a teenage
mothers claiming that such students would set bad examples for the rest of the
students. Teenage mothers face stigma, from their peers, families and even their
teachers.
The Government needs to
ensure the policies in place are implemented; teenagers are sensitized about
the dangers of teenage pregnancies, impact on their studies, future, families
and communities they live in. Teenagers too have a role to play in ensuring
that they are empowered and that their different potentials are not brought to
a halt by getting involved in risky sexual behavior at a young tender age. Parents
too should ensure that their children are educated on the evils of early pregnancies
and not leave the job for the teachers. Teenage pregnancies are real; together
we can fight for our uninterrupted future.
If it wasn’t for the
teenage pregnancy that took Ruth’s life at a tender age, am sure she would have
been here to share the success that we all hoped to achieve. Through me, Ruth’s
dream is ALIVE.
Written
by: Adellah Agaba
Mob:
0782/0702 - 171265.